It’s never easy trying to impress a potential date, is it? You are nervous and don’t really know what to say. You want to sound smart but are afraid that it’d come out silly. You hate the rejection but you have to give romance a chance. So what do you do? Here’s the time to ask consult the guru.
Well, choosing the right words for your profile can help alleviate some of these problems. At least you know that you’ve done everything that you could to present yourself in the best light and to make the readers feel comfortable approaching you. A golden rule in communications—whether it is in writing, speech, or art—you need to consider the audience. Who they are and what they want? You can make your profile funny, goofy, silly, or serious so that it will reflect your true personality. After all, it is important to let people see a part of who you really are. Then ask a few close friends, hopefully that kind that you hope to attract, and see what their reactions will be. Ask them for identify what’s cool, hip, or down right creepy. Get the advice and use it accordingly. You don’t have to write everything they say. This is your profile, but it never hurts to ask for advice.
And when you live your fairy tales and live happily ever after, don’t forget to pass on the advice and help out the poor helpless chap and damsel along the way.
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